Are We There Yet? 5 Ways to Make Summer Travel with Kids Less Stressful

Summer is our season of adventure. It’s when we trade schedules for spontaneity and fill our calendar with trips that bring us closer together. After years of traveling with our kids, we’ve figured out what works (and what absolutely doesn’t). While every trip comes with a bit of chaos, the memories we make are always worth it.

If you’re planning to hit the road or hop on a plane with little ones in tow, here are 5 tips that have helped us make the most of our family travels—plus a few real-life moments from our own adventures.

1. Pack Light—But Make It Count

One thing we’ve learned: overpacking just makes everything harder. Instead, we stick to basics, roll outfits into packing cubes, and make sure each kid gets a say in what they bring. It gives them a little independence and keeps things more organized.

We also always pack an extra tote or duffel for laundry or souvenirs—because there’s always something extra on the way home.

2. Snackle Boxes = Game Changer

If you haven’t made a snackle box yet, trust me—this is your sign. Our kids love bringing their own mini grazing boxes filled with a mix of fruit/veggies, cheese, a protein bar or meat stick, and a few sweet treats. Not only does it keep them happily snacking, but it also cuts down on constant “I’m hungry” complaints. Everyone has their own, and it’s now a travel tradition.

Plus, we always travel with refillable water bottles. Hydration is key, especially in summer heat.

3. Make It Fun and Educational

One thing we started doing recently (thanks to our oldest, who’s a big sports fan) is finding cool sports facts about wherever we’re headed. Whether it’s learning which city hosted a major game or discovering a fun fact about a local team, it adds a little educational twist to our trips—and keeps everyone engaged.

It’s a small touch that makes a big difference when you’re trying to balance fun and learning during summer break.

4. Everyone Gets a Say

We try to plan at least one or two things each person in the family wants to do. It keeps everyone involved and gives us a fun mix of experiences.

Last summer in San Diego, the kids surprised us by wanting to try local foods with us. What started as a simple idea turned into our own little family food tour—tasting tacos, ice cream, and even a new pasta dish. It’s still one of our favorite travel memories.

5. Honor the Routine (When You Can)

While vacation schedules are always a bit off, we’ve learned that sticking to even a loose version of our kids’ routines makes a big difference. Whether it’s winding down with a book or bringing their favorite blanket, these little comforts help with sleep (and minimize those evening meltdowns).

We also build in some downtime—parks, pools, or even just quiet time at the hotel—because not every moment needs to be planned.

It’s Not About Perfection, It’s About Presence

No trip goes exactly as planned. There will be forgotten items, snack spills, sibling squabbles, and the occasional “Are we there yet?” on loop. But there will also be sunsets, belly laughs, and those small, magical moments you wish you could bottle up.

Traveling with kids isn’t always easy—but it’s always worth it.

So wherever this summer takes you—whether it’s a big trip or a weekend road trip—lean into the joy, embrace the mess, and remember that the best memories are usually the ones that happen in between the big plans.

Xoxo

Christian

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